Wednesday, November 04, 2009

What is your motivation??

Motivation is such a strange little thing isn't it? Sometimes we are heavily motivated for the "wrong" reasons and sometimes for all the "right" reasons. Sometimes we find motivation in things that we never planned or thought would become motivators.

Most all of us have motivation for our weight loss. Mine was two-fold. My friend Susan was doing WW and looking great and made it sound so easy. To this day, she is an awesome motivator. The other part of my motivation was to get healthy and be a healthy influence for my children. While my daughter begged for some of my yogurt mixed with Kashi, almonds, blueberries, and grapes, I realized that I am getting to this goal and it's a great feeling.

My motivation for running came from reading about people doing C25K and they were people like me. Not runners, not even athletes, but normal moms hoping to get a little fitter and follow an easy plan. When my friend Jennifer confided that she was in Week 6 and how awesome it was, I knew then and there that I could do it. Jennifer continues to motivate me to sign up for races together and buy cute running clothes. LOL! I'd like to think I contribute to her motivation also.

I have been running a new route about once a week and found the strangest motivation when I needed it most. Around 10-12 minutes into a run, I get bored. I'm not tired, just bored. I think I might have adult ADD, but that's a story for another day. Anyway, this route is near my home in an area in which I grew up. Every day after school, I rode to the pasture (cows) with my great-grandfather and sometimes when his work schedule permitted, my uncle. We had a great time. I loved going down there with them. After my great grandfather died, I would go with my uncle when he went sometimes and looking back, I learned so much on those rides. He taught me about cows, weather, what the yellow lines on the road meant (lol), talked about things he did when he was a kid, etc. When I got older, I would meet him down there every now and then and share a beer and just watch the cows. He loved that.

I have a couple of people at work that every now and then catch me in some strange habit (like eating salt out of my hand) and they laugh, shake their head, and tell me how strange it is to see him in me sometimes. He passed away 5 years ago and it's funny how sometimes it still gets to you.

When I get to around 13 minutes into my run, I come upon the pasture. It's gorgeous and full of grass, trees, cows, and horses. I pass the wreaths laid out at my uncle's birthday and the old tractor that I still remember them both riding me around on. It motivates me. I smile, pick up my pace, and move on. I think they would be laughing at me and why in the world running sounds fun. Not sure why, but it really makes the rest of my run more enjoyable.

Finally, I have found so much motivation from our weight watchers members at work. They are only a few weeks in, but their progress motivates me to stay on track. I don't want them to think this lifestyle isn't able to be a long-term thing. In training yesterday, lunch was provided as well as snacks. Them asking me about their selections was awesome. They are doing so well!!

So, what motivates you? family, money, friends?

11 comments:

Staci Dombroski said...

I totally understand the adult ADD! I love to look for new routes and see new things. Otherwise, I can sometimes get bored too, but such a great feeling to see all the nature around you and feel so invigorated at the same time!

cmoursler said...

What motivates me is living my life to the fullest in every way possible. I wasn't doing that at 262 lbs. I am starting to though. I love that you are so close to the memories of your childhood and that they make you smile. It's nice.

S. said...

My biggest motivator is definitely all the things I can do now and how my life opens up and becomes easier the more weight I lose. It's really quite an amazing thing that I never expected and it definitely keeps me inspired to keep going and see what's around the next bend!

Bezzie said...

Boredom, impatience and annoyance. Well on the exercise front that is. I HAVE to get out of that office at least once a day or I go crazy...and eating lunch in the lunchroom does not count. Impatience because of the little things--like I can't STAND waiting for that damn elevator to arrive, it feels so wasteful just sitting there waiting for it! And annoyance for all those little things like parking. I don't consciously park the farthest away from the building/stores on purpose--it's because no one else parks that far out and never wants those spots, so I don't have to deal with taking 10 minutes to back out dodging spot vultures waiting for you to get out.

Losing It- for real said...

Is it bad that I think my motivation is basically looking good in clothes? I mean I want to be healthy too and I think it would be cool to actually be able to run some sort of distance.

Losing It- for real said...

Hey Melissa! I know I just commented but i posted some questions on C25K, I was wondering if you could check them out and see if you could help me out! Thanks

lyricgirl said...

Thank you for the wonderful post. This might sound a little selfish but I motivate myself. In the past other things motivated like: up-coming parties or major events, smaller clothes, family and friends. But those all failed because it was not about me. Those reasons meant nothing to me. Once I decided to focus on myself my life changed for good. It has to be about you in the end for it to work.

Thanks again for the post.

Tiffany said...

No matter how long my run is the hardest part is getting to the halfway point. I have to push and push myself to get there, but once I have hit halfway I really start to enjoy myself. Another way to get past you bored part is music, trail run or just try a differnt route. Glad to hear you are enjoying the cows!

Mommy2Joe said...

I love this post.

Right now I am motivated by the people around me. My motivation changes from time to time, and I am kind of in that place where I'm feeling low, so I'm surrounding myself with people who are doing it. So maybe it will rub off on me.

Mel -Tall Mom on the Run said...

Thank you for your comment :)

"I think they would be laughing at me and why in the world running sounds fun." I always think that my GRandmas would say "Now why would you want to go and run 26 miles for honey?" Makes me smile every time.

I am motivated by my health and by inspiring others to be healthy and happy. I am motivated by fresh air, wide side walks, chirping birds, cruching leaves, and knowing that my kids will be strong and in shape..

There are soo many reasons to be motivated!!

Allison aka Scooty's Mom said...

Hey Melissa....check out my blog from 11/6 when you can. :)